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:iconnadairead:nadairead posted a status
I support friendships without additions.
(such as boyfriends, kids, and/or dogs. They can stay at home for a few hours, can’t they?)
This grinds my gears for quite a time now.
Like, I want to spend time with YOU and not with your boyfriend/kids/dog. Sure, they're a part of your life now. But seriously, is it really too much to ask to leave them at home for a while? I've met a few people who tagged along somebody, and the activities are quite limited then. This is annoying as hell.
They don't have to accept my wish, and I probably will stay alone with this opinion, but I don't have to accept them to tag along somebody either. :/

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:iconmarythacake:
MaryThaCake Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I love dogs but HONESTLY I AGREE SO MUCH
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dondena Featured By Owner Feb 12, 2018  Hobbyist Writer
I can handle someone bringing a dog with them more than kids. At least dogs don't talk like us and making focusing on themselves quite as much, 
unless they aren't dog friendly with other dogs and try to attack it. But yes, dogs can be left at home. 
Tho I unfortunately have a neighbor who lives beneath me, apartment complex, that has a dog with severe separation anxiety. It's one thing to go out 
for a little while, but someone who has a dog like that, just can't leave their dog alone to annoy the neighbors with its intense barking is not acceptable
for long hours. 
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:iconcartoonygothica:
cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018
[I don't blame you.  I've had a fear that if a friend entered a romantic relationship, then I'd lose them to the friend's partner.  I feel that I can't be close friends with someone who's already in a relationship because I fear that I'd have to compete with the person's partner for attention.]
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:iconnadairead:
nadairead Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yep. I can relate but got kinda used to it. Since like everybody has a partner...
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:iconcartoonygothica:
cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2018
[I'm single and not really looking for anyone.]
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:iconillueule:
IlluEule Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018
While I think its important to get to know the partner of a friend (when its a SERIOUS relationship that is) its annoying as fuck when people can't even do a single thing without partner anymore, constantly talking as we and not I / me.
Same goes with kids. Especially kids because I just don't work together with them.

But dogs can always be there. I love dogs. Dogs are good and too pure.
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:iconnadairead:
nadairead Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You can't go shopping with dogs tho. xD
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:iconillueule:
IlluEule Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018
I'm not a person who likes to go "shopping" that much, especially not in bigger cities so I am out of friend demographic I guess xD
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:iconnadairead:
nadairead Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I see. 
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:iconillueule:
IlluEule Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018
Aber ja ich kann verstehen wenns nervt @___@ Die meisten Freunde von mir sind Single, ich hab aber eine Freundin die hat einen Partner und die ist zum Glück nicht so (und will auch keine Kinder)
Passiert dir das oft dass Leute dann einfach Anhang mitbringen ohne zu Fragen DX?
(Ich meine ich kanns manchmal verstehen aber immer? Und wie gesagt Hunde gehen immer, da plan ich dann drumherum.)
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:iconnadairead:
nadairead Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Japp. Leider recht oft. Auch meine Schwester hat das schon öfters abgezogen. Das neueste Ding war ja, sie wollte mich zum Essen mitnehmen. Altdeutsch essen gehen, weißt?
Ich dachte natürlich in dem Fall, nur sie, ich und ihr Freund (weil der das Auto fährt). Ganz cool also.
Ja, während der Fahrt erzählte sie dann, och, wir holen noch den Bruder von ihrem Freund und dessen Freundin ab, die kommen mit.
WHATTHEFUCK! Dass ich Sozialphobie habe und mit neuen Orten und neuen Leuten nicht klar komme, war ihr wohl 'entfallen' oder scheißegal. -_-
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:iconillueule:
IlluEule Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018
ugggh hätte wenigstens vorher warnen können DX
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:iconnadairead:
nadairead Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Will ich auch meinen...
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